Here's a look at some exercises that will help to ease tension.
And, by the way, these are great exercises to do if you can't
when we are under tension?
Our bodies trigger the 'fight or flee' response - the
natural reaction to a perceived threat. This generates extra adrenaline
to give us a burst of energy so we can deal with the threat. It
also thickens the blood to stop us bleeding more quickly in case
we're injured while 'fighting or fleeing', and tenses
up certain muscles so we can defend ourselves more effectively.
We have no control over this - it's totally natural and instinctive.
In ancient times when we faced danger we used up the extra energy
by fighting the danger or running away from it, but in modern times
we can't do that. .
The causes of stress or tension in modern times often come from
the office or home - an unreasonable boss, a relationship breakdown,
a new job or a death in the family. In these cases we don't
remove the danger by physically fighting or fleeing. As a result
we don't disperse the adrenaline or allow our blood to thin
out - our bodies remain in a permanent state of readiness to deal
with the danger.
What is the
effect of this?
This permanent state of readiness over time leads to tension
headaches, stiff neck and shoulders, stomach upsets, back pain and
other symptoms of stress.
What can we
do about this?
When we are under physical threat the body naturally tenses up
certain muscles in order to protect itself. It basically hunches
and curls up into a ball to protect vulnerable areas and expose
the better-protected ones.
Remember - the body reacts to stress in the same way as it reacts
to perceived danger. So when we are under stress the body will naturally
try to react in the same way. While we don't normally curl up
into a ball in the middle of a meeting if we are under tension,
the same muscles that would allow us to do so are the ones that
These are the muscles that tense up under stress:
- - We tend to frown
- - We tend to clench our jaws
- - Our shoulders tend to hunch up
- - Our chest tends to close
- - Our arms tend to come into our sides
- - Our hands tend to bunch into fists
- - Our legs tend to close
- - Our knees tend to be drawn up
- - Our feet tend to be drawn up, so our feet are pointing
So how do we
relax these muscles?
Muscles tend to resist external pressure that's forced onto
them. Try this: rest your wrist and hand on a table, palm facing
up. Your fingers will be curled inwards. With your other hand try
straightening out your fingers. Your will feel a resistance and,
once you let go, your fingers will bounce back to their original
position. We need to find another way to relax those muscles.
Each joint in our body is supported by muscles on both sides.
This enables us to move the joint in many directions. If we move
a joint in one direction the muscles on the opposite side of the
direction we're moving in have to relax so as to allow the movement.
For example: if we bend our knees the muscles at the front of our
upper legs have to relax to allow the movement. If they didn't
relax our legs would stay straight.
Here are 8
In order to relax the muscles that tense up under stress we need
to move the affected joints in the opposite direction to the natural
Here are some relaxation exercises to release tension:
- 1. Try to move your forehead or hairline backwards over
the top of your head, the opposite of a frown. It may help to
imagine your hand stroking backwards from your forehead over
the top of your head and down to the back of your neck, but
don't actually do the stoking.
- 2. Open your mouth as wide as you can, hold and release
- 3. Push your shoulders down and back, hold and release
- 4. Stretch your arms up and link your hands above you head.
- 5. Open your hands as wide as you possibly can, hold and
- 6. Lie on your back and roll your knees outwards. No need
for a big movement on this one - a few millimeters is all that's
needed to relax your inner thigh muscles.
- 7. Straighten your knees so that your hip is opened out
- 8. Point your toes downwards as far as you can. Hold and
The ideal way to start learning these exercises is to lie flat
on your back. Once you have got the hang of it you can do them at
any time: sitting at your desk, waiting in a queue, waiting at a
stoplight. Wherever you have a few moments to wait.
Good luck and remember: if we don't do anything different
we'll keep getting the same results!
Martin Malden is a web developer and marketer who has had
a keen interest in the area of personal development for more
than 20 years. His website is focused on how to manage attitudes &
emotional responses to problems in order to help people overcome
stress and fulfil their true potential in life. Contact author